I’m 17-ish weeks pregnant with my little new one. Things are going well, growing as they should, and evolving nicely. Baby-Bug can hear a little, and seems to be something of a kick-boxer. We have had two prenatals with our midwife – the same midwife who was present for the delivery of the Little-Bugs – and have heard a strong heartbeat both times. It’s nice to know that Baby has a circulatory system!
I thought an peek into my style of pregnancy might be fun…
*We do no internal investigations. No ultrasounds, no tests, nothing that invades the baby’s special space. We would do these things if the midwife or my intuition suggested that it might be important for my and the baby’s safety. But as things are progressing normally, we see no reason to fuss this very busy little individual. Baby knows what it’s doing and we’re trusting the process.
*We are planning to have a homebirth. I will write a longer post about chosing homebirth sometime in the near future, as well as sharing Brother & Sister-Bug’s birth stories. We will transport to a hospital if the midwife or my intuition recognizes that as the safest option, but with two wonderful and successful homebirths behind me, I am confident in my body’s ability to do this thing.
*Brother-Bug and Sister-Bug will attend the birth, with loving support from a couple key members of friends and family to care for them. I deeply believe that the presence of siblings at births makes the birth a normal part of their lives and the expansion of their family. I loved having Brother-Bug present for Sister-Bug’s birth, and now I am delighted as he shows his sister the ropes – explaining the prenatal process to her, telling her it might be loud while I’m having contractions, and generally supporting her. He is owning his knowledge and that is awesome.
*I am still nursing Sister-Bug and will continue to nurse her and the new baby. I am, in fact, nursing while I type this post. This is called Tandem Nursing. Brother-Bug nursed till Sister was almost one. It’s a wonderful way to teach sharing, and the connections that they had early on (holding hands while nursing) were magical. There will be a longer post about Tandem Nursing coming soon.
Those are the essential points. Some of them are considered controversial by some people. I’m not writing this to cast judgements on those who make different choices than me, and I hope you keep any judgements you make to yourself. These are choices that work for our family.
And now that the interminable morning-noon-and-nighttime sickeness is done, I’m looking forward to growing bigger and loving the many adventures that each pregnancy brings with it.