No time to write yesterday. Sister-Bug was up early and during her naps I am sewing her a dress to wear to her Faery-God-Parent’s wedding this weekend. It would have gone well, except that I put the sleeves on wrong and had to rip and re-do. Bummer. But now the bodice is done and I just have to do the skirt and zipper. She is going to be so darn cute!
But on to our Mindful Mon(Tues)Day!
|The boychick at about 18-months…in his pile.|
I’m tackling a big one this week – one that is not strictly me. Actually, it mostly involves Brother-Bug and his bookish habits. He likes to keep stacks of books near by him at all times and (being a 4-year old) is not the greatest at putting those books away. I’ve been trying for what feels like aeons no to get him to pick up his books. Put one away, take one down. Pick them up before meals. And so on. But still, we end up with books all over the floor. This is a problem for me, especially when we injure library books.
Yesterday, in preparation for this post, I talked to him about Mindful Monday and what it means and how he can participate this week. I formed a plan with him about keeping the books picked up. Here’s how it goes:
Keeping the Library Books Picked Up
Who: Brother-Bug and me
What: Keeping library books off the floor and couch.
Why: Because books on the floor is a pet-peeve. Because I love and respect books and want to keep them nice. Because we keeping tearing/bending/injuring library books and I hate having to carry them, shoulders slumped in shame, to the repairs desk. Because learning to clean up is really important.
How: I’ve worked on this one a lot already, and haven’t found anything that inspires Brother-Bug. So we are trying a stick and carrot method this week.
*I will remind him several times throughout the day to check his library books and make sure they are all on the library shelf. He gets 2 “nice askings” and one “firm telling”.
*If he doesn’t pick them up, or fusses at me, I pick them up. All errant library books go in the returns stack. There is no chance to get them out.
*If he gets to Friday (library day) and most of his books are in the return stack he doesn’t get to check out any new books this week.
*However, if he does pick them up himself – on his own initiative or when reminded once – throughout the day, he will earn some computer time and fifty cents toward his current spending goal.
Maybe it works, maybe it doesn’t. But we can’t keep destroying library books. And if it works, we can move on to all the other books we own that seem to spend a lot of time as wall-to-wall carpeting. I’m keeping my fingers crossed.